Apparition of Arran: An Elder Tale from Scotland

 

Tree arch and bridge near Shiskine
on the Isle of Arran, Scotland
Image by Andy Jamieson via Creative Commons

I have joined a discussion group where most of the participants are college professors or members of the foreign service.  In late May of 2024, I was charged by leading a discussion. I decided to talk about psychological models of growth in late life using elder tales as illustrations of those points. 

(See Related below for some details about the psychologists / psychiatrists that I referenced.)

I ended up sharing about eight tales, many of which are retold here on this blog. (Again, see Related for the root post about elder tales.)  However, I had not yet retold this tale from Scotland. 

I enjoy it because it demonstrates resiliency in the protagonist. It also illustrates how older adults who have achieved wisdom are more comfortable with the topic of death and the notion of having a connection with those who are already deceased. 

But enough of the "explaining." Let me just retell this tale, which I found in this 1999 collection by Jane Yolen: Gray Heroes: Elder Tales from around the World. Penguin Books. 

Image by Brianann MacAmhlaidh
via Creative Commons

85th Birthday Celebration on Mother's Day

 

Donna Webb Lloyd's
85th Birthday

I was born in Utah, and I attended college in Utah, but I haven't lived here since the early 1990s.  I often miss family milestones. However, I live just 90 miles away from where we celebrated my mother's 85th birthday this year.  

It was a great blessing to attend.  

My mother and step-father live in an assisted living center. They moved there in the fall of 2019.  I have five step-brothers, and four of them also live in Utah (but not in the same county).