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| Sharon Couto, Maye Musk and Sally Beatty Photo from Get Old |
I have long suspected that women are primarily in charge of people's bodies. Whether they are gestating bodies, feeding bodies, healing bodies, cleaning up fluids flung loose from bodies, or assisting aging bodies--women are most often in positions of key management over such matters. I know that in my house, I am the person most focused on effective body management.
Other family members, consumed with personal achievement or leisure activities, often put the health and function of their bodies on the back burner. So I ask them, "When was the last time you ate?" "Why are you coughing?" "Are you getting tired?" "Are those shoes too small for you now?" "How did you get that bruise?" "Why don't we eat some leafy greens?"
Yes, sometimes little girls, men and boys help with these body-focused duties as they occur in the domestic sphere. I love a man who will change a diaper or a teen who will clean up vomit or a child who will choose carrot sticks over cookies. I applaud them.
However, my trip to the Get Old* blogger summit this October confirmed my suspicions. No matter what our current age or social role, we women are clearly major stakeholders in the management of bodies. And most every body wants to get old in a healthy way.
The blogger summit also confirmed another notion: Everybody ages.
In attendance were 10 vibrant bloggers who address issues across the lifespan. Although my list forces these bloggers into concern based on the "age" of their blogging topics, all demonstrated interest in connecting the generations through family life, education, storytelling (with words and images) and advocacy.