It's sometimes difficult for young people to imagine, but older adults need love and sexual contact. Yes, sometimes age-related issues interfere with their abilities to pursue emotional and physical relationships.
Nevertheless, most people seek to clear these roadblocks. Grappling with these conflicts makes for good movie material.
Hollywood love stories often focus on romance for those 15 to 35, but a growing number of comedies and dramas are focusing on love and sex concerns for those middle aged (45 to 65) and older.
Here is a list of some of these films--organized by reverse chronology.
Finding Your Feet (2017). Imelda Staunton plays a woman who takes stock of her life after her husband of 40 years has an affair. The film is primarily about being your authentic self, but the main character (Sandra) does have a flirtatious relationship with a man supportive of her new identity.
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Our Souls at Night (2017). Addie (Jane Fonda) and Louis (Robert Redford) play neighbors who have rarely spoken until Addie proposes that they start a platonic relationship that includes sleeping (and just sleeping) together. Over time, they share their life stories, their heartbreaks, their goals, and touch beyond cuddling.
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The Rewrite (2015). Hugh Grant and Marisa Tomei star in a rom-com about two midlife adults looking for second chances. He wrote one successful screen play, but she's working on her first at midlife. Can he teach her anything about writing? Can she teach him anything about life?
I'll See You in My Dreams (2015). Blythe Danner stars as a widow of 20 years who has recently lost her canine companion. This serves as a catalyst for her to evaluate all of her relationships--past, present, and potential. Over the span of the film, she forms new connections with a couple of men--a pool boy years her junior and a gruff-and-handsome agemate.
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Love Is Strange (2014). John Lithgow and Alfred Molina play a couple in a long-term relationship who finally marry only to be hit with several hardships. Friends and family step in to help, but living in close quarters with others puts a strain on those relationships and adds to their hardships.